
A discussion I had today with the wonderful Reshma Sohoni, CEO of Seedcamp, brought back a thought/observation I was chewing on for quite some time now: European startups are rubbish at networking.
Let me start with an observation my dear friend and mentor Dr. Ralph Werner and I shared a while ago: When you visit a European trade show (and this is particularly true for events in Germany) people start by talking about the weather, the event itself, the booth design (down to the color of the carpet) and eventually, after 30 minutes of exchanging pleasantries, talk about themselves, what they do and how they could probably do business together. After this is done, both parties agree to exchange business cards. Now take the average trade show in the US: People walk up to each other, start with a breathlessly shouted introduction of themselves and their business, throw their hand with their business card towards the other person with the question: “So. What do you do?”. It’s basically speed dating - after an equally breathless answer both parties exchange business cards and walk on to the next person to talk to.
Now you could lament the fact that the ‘European way of doing things’ is nicer, more personal and adds a much higher level of understanding and trust - but ask yourself: Why do you go to an event? Usually the answer to this question is: To find as many interesting people as possible.
And the very same behavior I see again and again with European startups (mind you - not all, but a good chunk of them behave in the exact same way as described above). They go to networking events such as the excellent OpenCoffee Club and spend the whole morning speaking to one person - most of the times someone they already know.
So please - when you are at a networking event, tradeshow, and actually pretty much anywhere: Meet as many people as possible. Measure your success by the amount of contacts you made (and DON’T forget to follow-up - otherwise the whole exercise is rather pointless).













